As a Pastor and Christian leader, you probably know the tension well: the desire to build something meaningful while also hoping to reach a level of financial stability (or let’s be honest—abundance). We carry this dual calling: to be good stewards of the resources we’re given and to pursue lives marked by purpose, not just productivity.

But somewhere along the way, it’s easy to get caught in the grind. One more side hustle. One more promotion. One more project for the Kingdom and the paycheck. The question is—are we actually becoming more fulfilled in the process? Or just more drained?

This week I came across a thought-provoking piece in Harvard Business Review called “Does More Money Really Make Us More Happy?”. It’s not a Christian article, but it holds deep truth that resonates with biblical wisdom—especially when we think about the real relationship between wealth and joy.

The Connection Between Money and Happiness

Let’s be clear—money itself isn’t bad. In fact, Scripture reminds us in 1 Timothy 6:10 that it’s not money that’s the problem, but the love of money that leads us into trouble. The article echoes that, showing how our obsession with earning more often leads us to sacrifice the very things that make life rich—like time, rest, and community.

The authors argue that how we use our money matters far more than how much we have. Spending on experiences and relationships—rather than on stuff—has a greater impact on happiness. That aligns with how Jesus lived: meals with friends, time with the marginalized, stories shared around tables. Joy wasn’t found in wealth but in connection.

Another key insight? People who feel constantly rushed and “time-poor” are less happy—no matter how much they earn. It hit me: how many leaders (myself included) trade rest and Sabbath for hustle and hustle again? We’re chasing the good life but burning out on the journey.

Financial Security vs. Kingdom Joy

We often confuse financial security with happiness, but they’re not the same. While it’s wise to plan and save (Proverbs is full of that advice… Isn’t it!), true contentment is found elsewhere.

The article shares that giving—especially giving generously—leads to deeper happiness. That should come as no surprise. Jesus told us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). When we use our resources to bless others, our own hearts are lifted. That’s Kingdom economics.

As leaders, we’re called to model that—to show that generosity isn’t about having “extra” but about trusting that God provides enough. That’s a countercultural message in a world obsessed with more.

And that tension between more and enough is where faith and finances meet. When we lead with open hands, our wealth becomes a tool for ministry—not a measuring stick for success.

Finding Peace with Money and Calling

So what does it mean to live with financial peace and purpose as a Christian leader? Maybe it starts with redefining wealth altogether.

Wealth isn’t just a salary or a savings goal. It’s having the space to rest without guilt. It’s margin in your calendar and your soul. It’s being rich in relationships, in spiritual depth, in moments that matter.

Maybe it looks like taking a smaller paycheck to spend more time with your kids. Or turning down a flashy opportunity because it would crowd out your Sabbath. Or giving generously even when it feels a little risky—because you trust the Source more than the number.

Jesus never told us to stop working, but He did tell us not to worry. And there’s a difference. Our call is to steward, not to strive endlessly. To build, yes—but to build on a foundation that won’t crack under pressure.